Shifting from Working Hours to Infinity and Beyond Part 1 – FINANCE

Sejak awal April kemarin, saya sudah resmi berhenti bekerja. Alasannya bukan karena ingin fokus bisnis atau sudah jenuh kerja kantoran, tapi karena di-layoff. Sudah bukan rahasia lagi kalau beberapa tahun ini, dunia oil & gas sedang tidak menentu, imbasnya beberapa perusahaan terpaksa melepaskan banyak karyawannya. Saya sebenarnya sudah punya concern di-layoff sejak setahun sebelumnya. Tapi tetap saja pas saatnya tiba, ada perasaan campur aduk dan ketakutan yang berlebih. Banyak juga yang komentar, “Wah enak ya, bisa di rumah terus. Udah punya bisnis, dapet pesangon lagi”. Banyak juga yang jadi concern berlebihan dan memberi macam-macam lowongan pekerjaan. Ada juga yang bertanya sebenarnya sekarang saya ngapain sih? :)) Awalnya memang sulit menjawab komentar-komentar semacam itu, tapi lama-lama saya semakin bisa menerima kenyataan di depan mata dan semakin menikmati kehidupan sehari-hari.

Banyak yang menganggap kalau nggak bekerja kantoran itu rasanya enak, bisa ngapa-ngapain kesana-kemari, tidur sampai siang, dll. Padahal kenyataan-nya nggak seperti itu, kalau kita pergi ke luar justru harus mengeluarkan uang. Naik ojek ke mall, makan di luar, kadang beli-beli barang nggak penting, sedangkan income kita hampir di-stop sama sekali. Dibanding bekerja kantoran yang penghasilannya tetap, bekerja freelance atau jadi entrepreneur itu semuanya serba nggak pasti. Jangan mengira juga kalau semua orang yang punya bisnis bisa langsung sukses. Nggak semua orang bisa sesukses Lizzie Parra dalam sekejap (Kak Ichil saya fans berat!). Menurut saya bekerja kantoran dan tidak, selalu ada pro dan kontra-nya masing-masing. Yang pasti, keduanya menuntut kita untuk memberikan yang terbaik setiap saat.

Nah, sekarang saya mau berbagi hal-hal yang mungkin bisa diterapkan kalau kamu memutuskan shifting dari pegawai kantoran ke pegawai lepas, terpaksa di-layoff, mau menjadi entrepreneur, dll. Karena menurut saya, adaptasi ini nggak gampang walaupun kamu sudah menginginkan atau merencanakannya sejak lama. Proses adaptasinya sendiri mungkin bisa bikin depresi (true story). Ada dua hal besar yang mau saya bahas, FINANSIAL dan AKTIVITAS SEHARI-HARI. Dua hal ini jugalah yang menjadi pertanyaan terbesar saya sewaktu awal berhenti bekerja.

Saya menulis tips di bawah dari pengalaman saya pribadi, mungkin ada yang bisa diterapkan, mungkin ada yang nggak cocok. Tapi saya berusaha membuat tips yang general, walaupun pasti dalam pengaturan keuangan dan aktivitas sehari-hari, akan berbeda kalau misalnya diterapkan kepada Ibu rumah tangga yang ingin bekerja dari rumah misalnya. Background pribadi saya adalah belum berkeluarga di usia 20-an akhir, masih tinggal bersama orang tua, dan memiliki beberapa tanggung jawab keuangan kepada keluarga. Saya juga tidak memiliki kredit berkala seperti KPR, KPA, atau KTA. Sebagai tambahan, selama hampir 6 bulan tidak bekerja, income saya banyak didapat dari pekerjaan lepas dan pemasukan bisnis saya di Kawung Living.

Walaupun tidak tetap dan jumlahnya berkurang drastis, tapi pengeluaran hidup saya juga berkurang drastis. Jadi sampai sekarang, alhamdulillah saya masih bisa-bisa saja bertahan tanpa bantuan finansial dari siapapun. Oh iya, sewaktu saya berhenti bekerja saya juga diberikan pesangon dari perusahaan.

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Last Quarter

Time is always a friend. No matter how fast it moves, no matter how slow it goes. It’s sad that 2016 is almost passed us over, but it will be exciting to welcome anything that comes after this. So as an ode to the end of September, here’s a list of random things to read or watch that I’m recently into.

Fall in love with Bento Graphics’ portfolio. My favorite works are this and this. I always love how Japanese companies tackle design problem. The company like Nendo and Muji are amongst few companies that I adore. They always blend out of the box design thinking and simplicity really well.

There are more reasons to love Stephen Colbert each day. One of them, he loves science and technology and can’t get enough of Neil deGrasse Tyson as much as I do :))

“Something can be rare and uninteresting, because of how common its rarity is.”

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As You Are

Come as you are, as you were
As I want you to be
As a friend, as a friend

As a known enemy
Take your time, hurry up
The choice is yours, don’t be late
Take a rest as a friend, as an old memoria
Come as You Are – Nirvana

In a classic grunge statement, Cobain encourages us to present ourselves ‘as we are’ rather than packaged in the labels that society may give us; to sacrifice nothing for the sake of presenting an image.

How many of you have the urge to take photos just for the sake of online presence? How many of you use the share button more than once a day? Despite its sentiment, the era of sharing contributes greatly in society and advanced technology. Data sharing nowadays holds a large part in developing knowledge and making communities. The boundaries of sharing become blurry. The terms branding and presenting become an obligation.

It is not a secret that sometimes, we feel closer to a stranger than our closest friends. We feel joy when she feels joy. We believe his opinion and buying the same clothes and products. They willingly share their daily routine. They talk to us in casual conversation. They act like a friend. In the end of the day, they are nothing than strangers with millions of stranger friends.

We feel pity because they are younger than us. We feel sad because they are doing what we won’t be doing. We feel danger because we think that they will bring harm to a larger society. We judge them by how they look, how they talk, how they present themselves. They are doing the same to us. We are angry at them for being who they are. They are angry at us because we are being who we are. We talk what we want to talk. They talk what they want to talk.

They sing like the rebel of the century, but it’s no different than 90s soap opera, with synthetic sounds and controversies. They feel left out and no one understands them, except their millions of friends.

Is it age? Is it time? Is it an era? Will they think different when they are older? Will we act different when we are younger? Will they do differently when they don’t have millions of friends? Who gives them permission to get extra exposure? Who gives them the spotlight to shine? Who gives them the chance to curse deeper?

When we feel lonely in a crowded place, we seclude ourselves through electric wavelength. We connect ourselves with distant drama and stranger’s life story. We become the stranger itself, who is lonely and desperately need consolation.

Maybe, they are as lonely as us. When they feel lonely in a crowded place, maybe for them, a million of strangers aren’t so bad.

In one of their greatest song, Blink182 refers Nirvana’s Come as You Are lyrics to address a fan’s suicide. 

I took my time, I hurried up
The choice was mine, I didn’t think enough
Adam’s Song – Blink182